“So, my sister’s 18th birthday is in a couple of weeks, and my parents are going to surprise her with a trip to Disney!
We live about six hours away, so it’s not a travel hassle, and we all think it’s a great idea, but … my sister is not good with surprises, and she can be, ungracious.
She doesn’t want our parents to spend a lot of money on her, so she just wants to see a movie on her birthday, but we all know that would be seriously depressing.
My parents say if she isn’t gracious about it, they’ll cancel the trip, and everyone will then be mad at her.
Should I warn my sister in advance, tell her what’s going to happen? Or, say nothing, and watch it blow up? — Birthday Brooder”
Disney what? Land? World? Paris? Tokyo? Hong Kong? You’ve got to be more specific here.
You clearly need to talk with your parents and have them ask your sister if she would like to do this. This would eliminate the surprise element of it all and also leave it open for another possible trip if she doesn’t want to go there for her birthday.
I for one would LOVE a surprise Disneyland trip for my birthday – just throwing that out there for anyone listening.