“I’m almost 15 years old. My parents signed me up for a one-week sleep-away camp this summer. I am looking forward to this, except that I don’t like being away from home.
Ever since I was a kid, I have had high anxiety in new situations and I don’t like being away from home.
When I was 10, my parents sent me to this camp for the first time. I cried a lot the first few days but then started enjoying myself.
Now I am able to handle short trips away from home, but I worry about what will happen at camp.
This time, I have my younger sister to look after, and I won’t do her any good if I am upset. I’m trying to be positive.
I have missed out on several opportunities because of this problem. I don’t want to make a fool of myself by crying at camp. What’s your advice on how to handle this situation? — Anxious”
Take my friend Garth Algar’s advice and “Live in the Now!” You will kick yourself after if you hampered your own enjoyment and you’ll regret those days and nights you spent crying that you weren’t home. Being homesick is completely natural and nothing to be ashamed of, but don’t let it consume you and get out there and enjoy yourself and make sure your younger sister does too.
You’re almost a young adult, which means soon you’ll be going away to college which is the ultimate sleep-away camp. And completely unlike Sleepaway Camp, unless there’s a murderer running around…Anyway, these camps are great experiences to prepare you for that, when you will be away at college, and you will meet new people and experience new and exciting things. Get out there!