“I have been married for 17 years, and for the past year I have stopped coloring my hair. Last week my husband told me that he is not attracted to me anymore — mainly because of my hair color.
I feel very strongly about not coloring my hair. I want to go through life being as authentic as I can be, but should I color my hair to save my marriage? — Inquiring Wife”
Congratulations! You’ve been married to a shallow man for 17 years! I’m preeeeeetty sure that if he is not attracted to you anymore because of your hair color then he was not truly attracted to you at all. That’s easily one of the dumbest reasons I’ve ever heard for someone to not be attracted to someone anymore. Easily. Tell him that if he doesn’t like it, he can get out. You will not sacrifice who you are just because he doesn’t like your hair color.